You're right, udreamer, I have to say that you get the point of this issue~
The hatred between two groups of people usually comes from some events and finally is brought by the individual attitude. Most of us are easy to be fomented by a hatemonger or some people have ulterior motives. Driven by fury, we often forget forgiving and loss the capability of analysis so that it prevents us from seeing the essence of an issue.
But on the other side, we have to acknowledge that in this world, for any race or nationality, you have right or capacity to forgive others only when you are enough powerful. So I think a race or nationality, who is confident, enough strong (whatever materially or mentally) and knowing how to forgive other people's envy, discrimination, hostile, doubt, etc. and, having abilities to resolve them peacefully, is mature, reasonable and hopeful. Our Chinese have held this capability since ancient time, so I believe we are sure to be able to be one of the most excellent nationality in the world and are sure to make our contribution to keep the stabilization and peace of this world.